Just curious how you consider him your rock when he does things that bother you so much? ( just curious about your logic in that statement)

Hard for me to understand because my dad was out there & embarrassed me totally wuth his arguing about things I knew he knew nothing about. My mom wasn't much better & I knew I couldn't trust them for guidance in any directikn I wanted to head my life in. Neither of my parents I would have ever considered to be my rock & they didn't do the things your dad does. I guess I became so independent that no one ever filled the position of a rock in my life.....so the concept you are expressing & the logic behind it though foreign to me is interesting to learn about the thinking that goes into that feeling.