It’s been discussed and discussed for ages and I still don’t understand why not ask out women of more reasonable age? I am not saying she must be 63. She could be younger if that’s your preference like in her 40s or 50s. Why must they all be in their 20s?

Like if 37 years age difference is reasonable for you then I should date a 15 year old boy (if it was legal) or if he is older than me then he’d be 89. Do you think it’s a good fit for me? Why do you think 26 years old is a good fit for you? In what way?

Have you talked to your therapist about repeated attraction to these very young women? And if you know her for years, how old was she when you first met? Did you like her then too? Was she 20? 18? Is there something to explore in therapy about it?