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Originally Posted by eskielover
What percentage of the total time is the stuff you have a problem with?
Is his buying you stuff his buying your loyalty so you will feel like you have to tolerate the things he does?
Abusers groom the people they abuse in similar ways & the people do enjoy being with their abusers or they wouldn't stick around for thecabuser to abuse them.
Just make sure your boundaries are firm. He may not be such a rock afterall.....just something to possibly think about & be aware of.
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Id say 30%. Im not saying he is a abuser though. Just his boundaries are a little messed up. He loves me thats why he does for me. Its just not a good time for him to be like this not that anytime is. I mean I had flashback in Feb. of him making me kiss him on the mouth when I was younger in a forceful way but I cant tell my age or the context it was in so it may be nothing.