I'm a little late to this, but I realized something about some men. They don't want to run out of things to talk about when they meet you in person, so they keep chatting to a minimum. I like corresponding and conversing for a little while first before a meeting, to see if it's even worth the effort of putting on makeup and heading out for the night. There will be some that are open to chatting/texting first until you're comfortable meeting them in person. I think those are worth the wait.