Thank you. While I do have problems with such an age difference I instead tried to illustrate the realities and impracticalities such a relationship would entail. This seemed to go out the window.

I must say that I keep returning to my thoughts that this age thing is in fact a problem for me. The fact you have known her since she was younger I do find disturbing.

I have one other comment though. Why would you try this relationship on at all if you are unprepared for the consequences of raising her children. How unfair to her. This again causes me to question your motives.