I'm so sorry. I know how stressful financial problems are. My ambulance service billed me an extra $300 to be transported less than 15 minutes farther to go to a reputable hospital rather than the one nearest my home with a super-bad reputation. It was probably even faster to drive to because going there involves less traffic most of the way and fewer traffic lights, but go figure.

I'm sorry about your parenting difficulties with your son. How old is he? My daughter is 10, and parenting difficulties doesn't even begin to sum it up although our issues are on the sensory end, not liking to sleep and/or insomnia, combined with being extremely smart and knowing just the right buttons to push to make me angry.