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Originally Posted by KnitChick
I have a date tomorrow. To be honest, I'm just not feeling it. I chatted one time with this guy on POF. He gave me his number right away, which I thought was odd. I didn't give him mine till we chatted a little more. He asked me out on Thursday (first time we chatted), to go out on Sunday morning. Then he just kinda disappeared until he texted me this evening asking if we were still on. I tried to engage him in convo, asking how he was, and he just said "good. how are you?" I don't know. I don't feel up to going out with him tomorrow morning...
I think I'm going to cancel.
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considering dates are all about entertaining and being entertained, finding someone to share common ground with and possibly going further with a relationship, if you're not feeling it, don't. forcing yourself to do something that should be entirely optional and fun just doesn't seem very practical nor logical.
If I was the dude on the other end of this I surely would want someone willing and ready to go out on a date with me not someone begrudgingly going out with me because they forced themselves to.