That post refers to explicit sex talk. Flirting and what not is fine. Being pornographic in your descriptions is not appropriate to any of the Psych Central chat rooms.

What you do in private (one on one) is entirely up to each member. Remember to use self-care tools (e.g., ignoring) if you're not interested in such private chats.

Community guidelines apply in all areas of the website, however, including PM or private chats. Please keep that in mind when conducting yourself... Thank you.