Have you ever wanted to be a hermit?

Eta - if you have (and i have), i would say its because you want to control not being seen. If not, then its because you dont understand not being seen, and thats why you dont understand my answer.

Eta2 - i dont mock! I poke sometimes, but i would not mock! And i didnt think you were being flippant.

Eta3 - uh oh - i think this might mean we understand each other more often than one thinks! (There might be a little poking there.)