I have visited this thread from time to time ,,,,:

And I just remembered ,, sometimes we did the burn or cut for a dare ....

I use that as example .:

I liked the one and the other was more tolerance of pain .

Then I learned to re focus ... away from needing pain to ,,,, not hurting others and seeing their expressions when they saw .>> .

Hope I didn't cause hurt as I popped in here with this Post .