I don't think sitting in silence is very helpful to anyone. They are supposed to work with you on some level. I guess the statement was direct, although I think an inappropriate way to say it, but something about the whole thing seems passive aggressive. Maybe the silence. It almost seems immature honestly. She either needs to say she cannot see you anymore, or give you something specific she needs you to work on to meet her halfway. Otherwise, saying she is fed up and that you expect too much is something she should not say to you, as that is about her emotions or limitations to help you, and not you. I really don't know how anyone could get something out of therapy like that, and actually I think I would find it made me worse. I don't know the whole situation of course, or your relationship, but I would totally find a new therapist were I in that situation.