Just for information....I left my H 11 years ago but unable to get the divorce because of financial reasons caused mostly be him. He really messed things up even worse so from where I live across the country I called adult protective services (APS) because his financially irresponsibility was going to land him homeless. I am finally getting my divorce but I still care about him as a human. I waz actually hoping they would determine a conservator was needed.

Turns out they couldn't talk to me about thevspecific situatiln findings but they did let me know that if they see that a person is capable of decision making it is their own problem if they make BAD decisions.

So they would consider your choice not to go to the dentist as "just a BAD decision" & do nothing about it.

I can attest as to how bad it was for me to go to a dentist. I had antibiotics at the time my adult teeth were forming which caused the enamel on the teeth not to form well. My teeth had cavities & would just crumble all my life. I went to the dentist but not often because there was really not much they could do. Finally a few years ago I had all my teeth removed.

Only problem.....I couldn't tolerate dentures in my mouth without them making me throw up after gagging me. Only solution is denture implants & I don't have the $14,000 it would take to do that.

Glad to hear you do have an appointment.