I think it is ok to depend on the therapist. I only see mine once a month and i do depend on him. Im sorry your therapist feels different. Every therapist is so different on dependancy. I have major trust issues from my past so it is important for me to feel i can trust my therapist to handle what i tell him and be able to help me if he cannot i trust he will refere me out. It's very tough for sure. Hugs