There is no other normal explanation I know of for a child age seven engaging in oral sex. I know it's hard and uncomfortable to hear that. I'm very sorry for what you went through, and for that you have to find out about it again now.


Your therapist has to suggest theories. There's no way to be sure about what's going on without your input. What's the alternative?


It's also very common for people to forget or repress traumas at that age. Most people don't remember much of anything from before they were five years old to begin with.


The simplest explanation is usually the best.