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Originally Posted by Calla lily12
Hi TheLonelyChemist. Did your psychiatrist actually say "shut up"?? He doesn't sound very validating to say the least. No one has the right to tell you what you can't do.
I'm unclear about your family situation. They don't let you go out and socialize with friends? Is there a reason your mother . says " Don't let your kid go outside, he's gonna be a perfect high-ranking official.."
what does she mean by that? To have your psychiatrist say " I am interested in conquering the world. Does my aim sound realistic to you?" How RUDE and IGNORANT! Did your father hear any of this conversation? I don't have words for the way you're being treated. 
I'm sorry if I am asking to many questions but this whole thing enrages me. |
I am sorry for writing half-contextual sentences. It's related with my brain damage I guess.
Yes, he did. He literally said, "Shut up." He is a neuropsychiatrist and I cannot analyze him, all I know he should have been angry when I mentioned the medical entrance exam. Perhaps due to the fact it's my parents that made me unable to do anything?
I know they cannot force me to do anything over another, but I went to him to ask him about my health and if it's okay if I get into med school with a health like this. So it was more of an advice than an order.
My parents are mentally ill and have a very different point of view than others. Dad's kind of okay, but mom's very psychotic. They don't let me have friends, never let me go to anyone's house, never let my relatives visit me, never let me socialize because they're afraid I may become a "spoiled brat" ... so after years of isolation, the brain damage begun taking toll on my health, and it stated affecting my memory and my perception.
She doesn't say that but she has this sentence in her mind. She doesn't let me go outside, thinking it's all "useless", friends, support, networking, etc. but she FAILS to realize that you NEED to be an independent adult eventually and for that you MUST learn how to live in the outside world, or otherwise you'll end up brain damaged and disabled like me. This includes making friends and riding bikes.
He wasn't trying to be rude I guess but forceful. "Conquer the world" means to be the president of the united nations organization or something similar to that. He doesn't actually want that. He was just telling me med school is something impossible for me. Yes, my father was present in the consulting room with that.
Since my dad is kind of obsessed with money, he told me to give the medical entrance examination, much to my joy and hope. Of course, I can be a doctor, only if I get somewhere far away from the hellhole I call home....