You’ve used three different comparative words; normal, stronger, and loser. If you pick your statements apart logically, analyzing those three words, your statement was logical. How do you define loser? Is it synonymous with abnormal and weak?

As for apprehension about your 10 year reunion, nearly everybody feels like you do. See the movie Romy and Michelle’s HS Reunion. I didn’t go to mine. It wasn’t for fear of feeling like a failure, but for other social anxiety reasons.