I have been married to my husband for 33 years. He was a little controlling about what I wore when we first got married. Over the years he has not seem to really care that much. He was very much absorbed in his job and missed a lot of family time because of it. I got to the point where I would just go do my own thing and he acted as if it was ok with him. He lost his job a little over a year ago and things have become almost unbearable in our relationship. He has become overbearing and ridiculous with trying to dictate what I wear, no yoga pants or workout tops. No cleavage at all. Shorts need to be a certain length. Only wear a swimsuit in our back yard pool area. Never walk into our garage or anywhere else in the yard with it on, this is a one piece not a two piece. I am overweight and would never wear a two piece anyway. I wear clothes that are comfortable to me. If wearing something stylish that shows a little cleavage makes me feel good is that a bad thing? He stalks my FB page. I have had one for YEARS and he has just recently gotten on FB. I had to delete most male friends on there because of him. He even sent friend requests to some of my male co workers that he has never met, none to the female ones. He is very possessive and controlling all of a sudden. And he doesn’t see it. He wants to know who I am texting and what we are saying. I am getting truly fed up, but I don’t want to throw in the towel. What can I do to make him see he is killing my love for him? Sorry this is so long. But it is only touching on part of the problems. I need HELP.. thank you.