LOL. Sounds like she has the cognitive distortion. She assumes her interpretation of your life automatically supersedes yours, and therefore your interpretation must be distorted if it does not match hers. Your thinking sounds clear.
Her insistence on forced positivity over an honest reckoning with reality is just cheap pseudo-spirituality.
Therapists need everything to be about your internal conflicts rather than about external reality, so they can set about changing you in their image. Your suffering is assumed to be fixable thru internal tweaking by the puppet master who sits in the slightly higher chair.
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