This is what her response was when I dont like hearing about sexual abuse and it causes alot of chatter. (Chatter is things that pop in my head like I dont want to think about this, Im going to die, focus on that picture etc.)

I can only imagine how difficult it must be to listen to the possibility of any form of abuse happening to you (especially by your parents). If you can dismiss that possibility you can avoid having to think of that reality. However, it is only through acceptance of our situation/our reality, that we can begin to get to work on the healing process. Your brain reverts to its alarm center as a way of avoiding the reality.