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Originally Posted by ShadowGX
Aye, that "everyone must accept" me mindset is just trouble and is very unrealistic. I struggled a ton with that when I was your age. I still haven't entirely worked through that, but at least I don't want "everyone" to accept me, just a couple of people here and there is all I'm asking for. Even that isn't healthy apparently, we're supposed to just exist as ourselves and people will come to us I guess. =\
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Absolutely. I need to stop being 'cool' or a 'typical teenager' because I am honestly not anything of them. Yes, I will never get girls, I will never attend parties, I will never ride a 350cc bike, I will never be the adult I want(ed?) to be. But the best I can do is get into a hostel first and foremost, do well in medical college, and be a GP first and then select my specialty based upon my strengths and weaknesses. I will be able to live a better life than my friends who may end up as just another bachelors of science, but oh man, how I wish there was a balance between academic and social life, now I am just forced to be a bookworm.... and I may end up hating my job.
Parenting can and often will ruin lives.