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Originally Posted by growlycat
Would you consider searching for a new t?
I’m on the opposite side. My t is indulgent and mushy but he probably doesn’t challenge me enough. Believe it or not there is a downside to having this type of therapist. Maybe there is s happy medium therapist out there for you?
Or... have you ever voiced this concern to your t? Maybe they would be surprised that you feel this way and maybe they would adjust their style.
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I have voiced it and it usually ends up in an argument. I am so terribly attached, and yet she still sets cold, hard boundaries. I wish I could leave her but I don’t think I’d want any of the caring from another therapist. I may get attached to them at some point, but right now all I want is the stuff to come from T.