It's really interesting how different the reactions are here to the same examples. I guess I am somewhere in between, where I am not sure how I feel about him doing this. I really don't trust men ever and am always looking for ways to ghost them, but I am also subconsciously drawn to men who mistreat me. My spider-sense definitely perked up when I noticed he was doing this. I do like him, though, even if he seems a little old guard white dude, maybe because he is now feeling a little like a dad and it is comforting.... I guess I will keep an eye on it, so to speak.