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Originally Posted by blackocean
It's really interesting how different the reactions are here to the same examples. I guess I am somewhere in between, where I am not sure how I feel about him doing this. I really don't trust men ever and am always looking for ways to ghost them, but I am also subconsciously drawn to men who mistreat me. My spider-sense definitely perked up when I noticed he was doing this. I do like him, though, even if he seems a little old guard white dude, maybe because he is now feeling a little like a dad and it is comforting.... I guess I will keep an eye on it, so to speak.
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I really think it is worth bringing up, just to say, I’ve noticed this and I want to 1. Make sure you’re not mocking me, and 2. Let you know that I am unsure how I feel about it. I suspect it is meant affectionately, but if you don’t like it, you have a right to ask him to try to keep a better handle on those reactions.