I think you can certainly do better than married men and the single ones who want to get you to bed instead of dating. Essentially both groups are the same. They aren’t interested in dating. That’s why I keep saying look for a sliding scale therapist to help you with self esteem and setting high standards.

There are plenty of nice single men. It’s not east to meet the right one but it doesn’t mean you should settle. If you want to meet nice men, you shouldn’t engage with the ones who clearly are there for wrong reasons. Texting you at 1am, talking about kissing, giving cheap hook up lines and having sexual conversations isn’t what classy men do. how did he “seem really nice”? He seems pretty awful.

I don’t know if bumble is for very young people but I think maybe you ought to try better suited sites? I’ve met my husband on eharmony and talked to others on there prior to meeting him and no one ever acted like that.