Congratulations on getting free!


I would just make everything 'friends-only'. I know my abuser uses facebook, and I'm just careful about who can see what I post. I wouldn't worry too much about trying to correct people's lies. Just take the questions as they come. If you feel the need to warn people that so-and-so might be upset with you for moving out, that could help. Both your peace of mind, and to clear things up for people who are hearing tall tales.


It sucks feeling like you're still being watched, though. I'm sorry you're going through that!


Congrats on starting therapy, too! I don't have any advice for that. Going through a book with her sounds like a great idea. You've got a good handle on things, it seems to me.