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Default Aug 26, 2018 at 01:46 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Lrad123 View Post
My T has actually offered 2x/week appointments but we haven’t been able to find a time that works with both of our schedules. He pretty much requires standing appointments at the same day/time every week and I do that for the one weekly appointment I have, but couldn’t do that for a second appointment. I wish he’d let me have varying times/days based on my work schedule for the second appointment, but he doesn’t work that way. Going 2x/week might help with the connection fading.
I was only allowed 2x a week for 8 weeks in a crisis. He does not do it longer or regularly so clients don't get dependent on him. Yes it helped with connections but it also made the attachment stronger and I felt more dependent at times which I hated. Some days I hate his rule but others I'm glad because I still feel independent yet close to him which I like. I suggest talking to him about it. Maybe you can come up with something like a regular email since the 2nd session wont work for you right now. Good luck

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