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Originally Posted by Stone92
Congratulations on getting free!
I would just make everything 'friends-only'. I know my abuser uses facebook, and I'm just careful about who can see what I post. I wouldn't worry too much about trying to correct people's lies. Just take the questions as they come. If you feel the need to warn people that so-and-so might be upset with you for moving out, that could help. Both your peace of mind, and to clear things up for people who are hearing tall tales.
It sucks feeling like you're still being watched, though. I'm sorry you're going through that!
Congrats on starting therapy, too! I don't have any advice for that. Going through a book with her sounds like a great idea. You've got a good handle on things, it seems to me.
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Thank you!
Thank you for the advice. Yeah, I was considering making what I truly want to stay for friends only. I was thinking of making posts that are for friends and whatever I don't mind sharing to more people public. Whether she's looking or not, I can't really help that.
It's exhausting to have to constantly straighten out the lies, or be warned by people what she's said. I don't know.
I'm looking forward to therapy being a safe place to get out the feelings associated with my past trauma. I started reading the book that I want to work through with my therapist. It's intense. I wasn't expecting feelings to come up during the intro to the book! I'm looking forward to my recovery journey though.