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Aug 27, 2018, 04:49 AM
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Originally Posted by whispershadow
I can't face being on any ignore list though, it triggers me cause of stuff that happened on a different forum, basically long story short I was on forced ignore with another member there, other member blatantly ignored it with nothing happening to them (they was admin's pet - forum version of teacher's pet), ignore broke, I messaged a mod to say ignore's broke, next thing I know I had admin yelling at me in PM literally just for letting a mod know ignore was broke cause apparently it was my fault and I never found out how it was my fault  (and at no point did I interact with admin's pet since I got told to put her on ignore there, she was the one who kept replying to my threads and kept messaging me in the chat room and kept lying about me to the moderators etc)
That's why ignore's a trigger for me and I better get this posted before I change my mind and end up deleting it  |
This forum is not that forum. I suspect that these people placed you on ignore of their own volition and not that you have been directed to ignore them by the admins. So this situation is quite different. This site attempts to give a blanket approach to dealing with triggers. The other solution is to walk away and do self care, not make other people responsible for your triggers, which is essentially what you are asking for by asking admin to remove you from other people's ignore list.
We.can all agree that there are things, in general, that are triggering, such as graphic content or suicidal talk. Other things, we have to be responsible for ourselves. There are many resources on this site for coping with emotions and emotional triggers. Sabby typically has great advice on this front. I suggest trying to use some of those coping techniques to deal with your personal triggers.
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