Mickey: Absolutely! I have just found that the free sites don't work for me. I have not met one winner, but a lot of red flags.

GoldenEve: Thank you! I wanted to mention, too, that while I told him I needed to "not date and take care of myself," it was an "its not you its me thing." I was protecting myself (and him) from being hurt. Truth is, he was raising red flags. Thank you so so much for telling me to trust my intuition and that it will not steer me wrong!