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Originally Posted by Dnester
So as many of you know my therapist came up with this theory that I was sexually abused by my mother. Not based on memories. I told her that I hear alot of chatter when she talks about that like this is bad, I want to die etc. (I really dont). Out of the possibility of anyone doing that to me. I am most uncomfortable about it being my mother. My therapist is now I hear chatter because my brain is going to its alarm center because I dont want to accept my reality. Also I told her I was angry she even mentioned it because I have no evidence. She said I had every right to be angry. Wth. Wouldnt you have thst kind of chatter if someone was trying to push on you your mom did this?
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Is this theory one your T continues to bring up after you told your T that it makes you uncomfortable? Or are you the one that is bringing it up because it makes you uncomfortable? Is it something your T said once or repeatedly? Sometimes T's have wild theories that they mention once, but I can't see the point in mentioning it repeatedly because it doesn't seem to be helpful to you. I'm not really sure I understand about the chatter but I'm sorry you are experiencing it. I don't know what I would feel if my T thought that and expressed that theory to me. But what matters is that you are upset about it. You are angry about it. And ultimately you are the one that has to handle those feelings in whatever way you can. Would asking T not to talk about it be more helpful than going over it repeatedly? I hope you get some relief from your distress.