I think it would be a good idea to get your anxiety under control. IMO This will involve the learning and use of coping skilps. You need relief now. Getting to the root of the problem may be a good idea. However, this can take a some time and some money. You may be in a better position for this at a later time.

You have friends here. If you wish, shoot me a PM. I am all “ears”. Hang in there! I will be thinking of you and your situation.