It's not that I feel that black/white, positive/negative, etc., are choices within us, I'm saying that at a fundamental layer of reality, there is a binary nature of positive/negative, and those two poles define our reality in that we exist in a spectrum between the two.

It's the same thing with gravity. Whether I believe gravity is caused by quantum fluctuations in the fabric of space-time, or whether I believe it is caused by gremlins, the result is still the same--it exists outside of my human interpretation. Nature indicates this binary quality is present throughout the universe; I am merely trying to interpret it so I can properly judge my position within the cosmos.

The fact that this binary nature has come out in human expression is no surprise. Humans reflect the ineffable qualities of nature on a grand scale; thus, we need those polar opposites on a purely psychological level because without them, we have nothing to give reference to our existence, and that leads to chaos and despair.

I take a Strong Anthropomorphic Principle position as defined by Barrow and Tippler, where, "The Universe must have those properties which allow life to develop within it at some stage in its history." This consists of three core tenets:

1. There exists one possible Universe 'designed' with the goal of generating and sustaining 'observers'.
2. Observers are necessary to bring the Universe into being.
3. An ensemble of other different universes is necessary for the existence of our Universe.

Now, I take this to mean that the 5th dimension required by the Kaluza-Klein theory is a scalar field of potentiality, and as soon as that potential becomes solidified into either a yes or a no (or 1 or 2, is or isn't, etc.) at the zero space-time interval point, it transforms by some as-yet unknown function into reality of the four dimensions. Moreover, the KK Theory supports a quantum scalar field through the entire universe, and when viewed in the light of the De Broglie-Bohm theory, proves that while the universe is binary, existing between the past and the future, humans are unique in that we ride a sort of wave front of probability in the here and now, existing between the two poles on a spectrum. This exists at the quantum "froth" level, which is actually the hyperplane of the present in the form of an eternal sine wave fractal. This probability cascade has been occurring since the big bang, and will compress and turn into a singularity and become the big bang of the next universe, per the Conformal Cyclic Model of Roger Penrose.

Either that, or my cheese has slid completely off the cracker and I'm out of my mind. lol