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Old Aug 28, 2018, 01:03 PM
Colorado1940 Colorado1940 is offline
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Originally Posted by CANDC View Post
when we expect someone to die we can start grieving with Anticipatory Grief.

Unexpected can blindside us and be more of a shock

For me this is very true. My sister has had terminal cancer for over 18 months now; her original diagnosis had her passing already. She is a little roadrunner, always busy and smiling!
My father died unexpectedly due to a fall recently. I am angry that I didn't get to prepare for this, but I understand. I spent as much time as possible with him talking to him the 11 days before he died. I felt as if it was quality time.









I am angry, hurt, depressed etc. And who knows how I will feel after my sister passes; only time will tell.
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