Hmmm.....this actually makes me a little concerned.
Here me out.

You say that after 13 years you have made "minimal progress" with this T that you have been seeing, and now you want to move to follow him, although your progress has been minimal.

I hear that you have not had much luck with the other T's in the area, Was that 13 years ago? Might there be new people now?

Personally, I think 13 years is along time for you to feel that you have made only "minimal progress." I am not saying that it is too long for therapy, I once had a T tell me I would need therapy forever, BUT I can say that I have made more than "minimal progress."

Also, if you want to move, shouldn't you move to somewhere YOU want to move, not just somewhere to follow a T? I don't know what your situation is, but I think moving to follow someone else's needs is questionable.

I hope I did not hurt your feelings, I have had BAD T's too and I just want to give you another opinion.