Although now that I think about it a little more, maybe I do understand the other perspective better.

It’s sort of comparable to wearing revealing clothing in public vs. in session. When I’m on the street if anyone looks, it’s whatever, it’s right there plain as day and they can see it. But in session, just because my body is available to be looked at does not mean it’s ok for T to look. I shouldn’t have to cover up completely to expect him not to check me out (he does not do this FYI lol). I guess there’s a different level of respect expected.

Honestly both thought processes make sense to me.