did your parents increase their abuse after your diagnoses of mental illness?

or were they always abusive at the same level.

my parents were always abusive, but, when I was first diagnosed, it did prompt them to hate me more and exclude me from the family

sometimes I feel if it wasn't for my mental health diagnoses, I'd not have been excluded so much (maybe not treated better,) but not excluded- being able to say goodbye to relatives and take part in big ocasions etc