Didn’t he already ask you? I thought you are already engaged? I remember your post where you said he asked you to marry him?

Does he want to ask again because that’s when he will have a ring? If money is an issue, there are ton of rings that aren’t crazy expensive, if he thinks you want one for 10k you might give him a hint or tell directly that it’s not necessary. Zales always has great deals, just saying.

If he wants romantic setting, it’s great. There are ton of romantic settings that he can find.

Sure you have a say. It’s not selfish whatsoever. If he already asked anyways (if he never mentioned marriage then maybe I’d give it time), I’d say I want a ring and proposal next week lol. Or whatever other times you have in mind. Don’t be shy