I never thought of it that way. My new T is younger than me. I don't go to men bc I feel way too uncomfortable with a man, and I won't talk unless I am asked, and even that is hard for me. With this T, and my last one who was also younger than me, I look for things we may have in common. My new T, that I will see for the 2nd time today, I feel like we have the most in common than anyone else I have seen my whole life!!! She had ! alcoholic parent who abused her mother, and ended up the totally different than me. Both my parents were alcoholics, and abusers only in different ways, among others in my family, and my parent's friends. But anyway even though my T is younger, I feel closer to her than I ever did with any other T!!!