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Originally Posted by x_BabyG_x
I certainly agree with you there. She has been very clingy and weird with me lately and is constantly asking if im okay, like shes trying to protect me. Shes been funny for about a month now. I cant really see how shes picked it up though, but I know they are more intuitive than we realise.
Her heart was absolutely broken when I broke up with him last year. She loves him to bits. It took months down the line for her to stop tearing up about him, it makes my stomach turn to knots when I think about her going through that again.
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In a long run seeing mother broken up with wrong boyfriend is healthier than seeing ones mother being mistreated and abused by a boyfriend. She’d likely date men who are just like him.
Staying in bad situations for the kids isn’t fair to the kids but at least I could see why people do it when they share children. In your situation it’s your child, not his.
Staying with abuser because your kid might miss him isn’t very healthy imho. I am bowing out. Good luck, maybe seek professional help