I think I kind of misread the original question, I thought question was “when” not “where”. I’d not tell a person “where” and “how” I want to be proposed. But I think I would be bothered with a time frame. I am either engaged or I am not. I don’t get in between kind of thing. If he is asking me to marry him, then where is the ring and I want to be engaged officially then. Not a year from then.