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Old Aug 30, 2018, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted by golden_eve View Post
Thanks everyone!

Divine, to your question: he asked me previously but without a ring so it wasn’t official.

He could be feeling me out a little on the subject...

I guess my issue is mainly timeframe due to the expectations he’s already laid out, and I also would much prefer a more romantic setting than a concert.

Maybe I’ll strongly hint that I want a more romantic setting. I’ve already mentioned that I’d like it sooner than next year, but maybe I can casually bring it up again, or drop the hint again when he brings it up again? Hmmm.
I’d be direct. Hints aren’t always working. Just tell him you don’t want to wait till New Years. As soon as he can get a ring (or if you choosing one for your own liking) you’d like to get engaged. Don’t tell him what setting you want. Let him choose but no way you want to wait that long. That’s it.