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Originally Posted by Xynesthesia
I really think it is hard to accurately assess and interpret this client's experience from the short letter. No background, no context, all too short and superficial. It's interesting to observe what we all project into it though  |
Well, she "loves" him BECAUSE she feels that she is accepted by him. He could be the worst guy in the world IRL - throws his wet towels on the floor or something else that SHE absolutely could not accept - but she doesnt have that information available to her because of the nature of the t relationship. So her love is literally infantile, isnt it? The way an infant loves a good enough caretaker? Thats MY projection!
Eta - is it "real"? Its one sided, its limited, its immature, its needy, its not reciprocal. So it depends on what you mean by real.