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Originally Posted by lucozader
We did not talk about the gift.
So I guess we're just going to pretend that didn't happen.
Fine. I'd rather pretend it didn't. Just don't know what to do with the f***ing thing now.
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Ugh. That's awful. I hate when there's something like just in the way in therapy that doesn't need to be in the way. I don't know why T's don't understand that giving them something doesn't have to be so difficult. My T that I saw for 10 years, I gave her handmade cards at Christmas and every time she went away on vacation which she accepted no problem, but at the end when she got sick with MS I gave her a blanket I made and she accepted it, but I don't know if she would have accepted it back on like year 3. Or even year 5. I think she took it just because we had been together so long, and maybe her defenses were down because she was dealing with the MS. Oh I once gave her a plastic toy solder to protect her on vacation which she took but I'm sort of surprised she did. That was more about reassuring me than anything.