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Originally Posted by unaluna
Well, she "loves" him BECAUSE she feels that she is accepted by him. He could be the worst guy in the world IRL - throws his wet towels on the floor or something else that SHE absolutely could not accept - but she doesnt have that information available to her because of the nature of the t relationship. So her love is literally infantile, isnt it? The way an infant loves a good enough caretaker? Thats MY projection!
Eta - is it "real"? Its one sided, its limited, its immature, its needy, its not reciprocal. So it depends on what you mean by real.
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That's like the beginning of most relationships though. We're always blind-sided when it comes to love (and it's usually always about ourselves) - that's why it can be such a disappointment when the rose tinted glasses finally fall off. The therapy set up probably inflates the fantasy though.