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Originally Posted by golden_eve
Hon, you are in denial. You are not seeing the abuse, or for some reason, you are not matching his behaviors to those you have read about.
His behaviors are abusive. He IS abusive. Everyone here who has experience is telling you that this is abuse. Excuses for bad behavior is a trait of an abuser.
You need to read actual psychology articles and professional articles, not forums. Please read up on the signs of emotional abuse, and the traits and most common behaviors of abusers written by professionals or experts in the field.
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I have
I go through lists of emotional abuse, psychological abuse etc but it just doesn't quite ring for me. The articles I read last night were the first ones I have come across that I heartfully recogniosed. Maybe I am blind or in denial, all I know is im waking up to a situation, im upset and in shock and im trying to figure it all out.
Its weird, I feel i'm so good at noticing it in others and in friends and being honest and straight with them. When its your own situation and your emotions are attached things just get skewed and they are all over the place.
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