Why did you take him back six months after breaking up with him for lying about money? He showed you he is totally irresponsible with money and a liar about it. Why would you want to partner with someone like that? Didn’t you see he would bring you down with him financially?

When he continued to be irresponsible with money, why did you continue the relationship? Why did you enable him and support him financially?

You do have yourself and your daughter to be responsible for #1 priority.

Yes, he is totally abusing you, gaslighting, textbook examples here.