Well there are certainly a lot of contradictory behaviors here. I’m sure we all contradict ourselves at times... I catch myself doing it too... but this is a lot and it sounds like it’s best that you don’t have to be around this person anymore. I’m sorry you lost a friend. Friendships are hard to form and I always feels sad when things don’t work out. It’s always a bit of a risk when you meet somebody and form a relationship because you never quite know how things will work out and sometimes they can go really wrong.