Remember family can be those we pick in our lives who we want to share it with. Sometimes the ones we are born to are not the family we keep. At least up close. As a sister who has many sisters I can tell you from both sides. Try to listen to he intentions. Maybe she uses the wrong words. It's okay to say that really hurts me and I don;t know how to be with you when you talk like that because I feel you are putting me down. I wish you luck. Give her a try and see where her head is at. Let us know.