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Originally Posted by stopdog
Do you think the therapist offered because she thought if you accepted you would be making her do something? To someone who sets their own hours, working on a holiday such as labor day may be no big deal.
I often work/see clients on labor day because it is not a significant or emotional holiday to me at all.
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Thank you (and I mean this in a positive way) for helping me see my codependent behavior in this reaction of mine - I'm basing how I feel on how I think she should feel (a form of controlling behavior) instead of being happy she offered and letting her deal with herself. Seriously, thank you. And no of course she likely doesn't think that way.
I think i'm going to text her and ask for Monday.