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Originally Posted by Sisabel
Well there are certainly a lot of contradictory behaviors here. I’m sure we all contradict ourselves at times... I catch myself doing it too... but this is a lot and it sounds like it’s best that you don’t have to be around this person anymore. I’m sorry you lost a friend. Friendships are hard to form and I always feels sad when things don’t work out. It’s always a bit of a risk when you meet somebody and form a relationship because you never quite know how things will work out and sometimes they can go really wrong.
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I agree with you, yes we all contradict ourselves. Even I do it, we all do. No denying it. It is when it happens at a alarming rate and creates a toxic environment like I described when it becomes a problem. Yeah essentially it was okay for her to treat people a certain way or demand their time and be controlling, yet no one could do it to her. Not only that, but the way she gloated about her best friend from high school made me and even others feel like we are worthless. The way she did it made it sound like she was saying no one will ever be as good as her best friend. I was not the only one who felt that way too. Lots of other people felt the same way so I know for sure that my way of thinking is not wrong. There really is something wrong with the way she gloats about her best friend and treats others. Almost like an obsession too. Also she has the inability to accept responsibility and can't be wrong. I agree, friendships are scary to maintain since most turn out to be toxic.